Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Possible Reasons of the beautiful loving relationship coming to an end




What are the probable rationales of a beautiful loving relationship turning to that of hatred? Does anyone know the reply? I consider that many will articulate that the relationship was never strong to commence with? What if I say that I have seen a relationship that was as strong as a bank vault and then disintegrate like a mud house?

In the relationship I am communicating about one partner who started facing troubles because of her own resolutions. She was having foremost value differences with the male where the male wanted her to verbalize about the reality to the whole world but the female wanted to amuse herself in hide and seek. This was causing her lot of torture.

She never attempted to deal with the root cause but started holding responsible to her husband for all the tribulations. As the male was unable to persuade her about his perspective, which would have brought tranquility, all around after a period of mayhem but the female refused. She did not want to face any chaos.

This relationship survived in the heart of the man who thinks of the woman all the time, but the woman left him after blighting him of all the evils that were transpiring her.

Relationships stumble down for variety of reasons. Sometimes one partner wants to give more importance to profession than the other needs. Some times one partner feels that the other is taking the benefit. Whatever the reason, the self-belief in each other is gone. As soon as that happens partners starts blaming each other for the whole thing.

They even question the intention of their partner for doing something when they were in the stage of love. The past is dismembered and toxic is transferred over the loving memoirs. That is the end of love and only hate stays alive. Call this fate or destiny. No psychoanalysis helps in ruling out the reasons of devastation. That becomes a larger pain. What do you think? Please write your comments.

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